hurt and bothered...
I just learned from a family member during our conversation last weekend that another family member has been talking about me behind my back. I was really shocked to know about it and can't help but get hurt. What made me more upset was that this has been going on for sometime! I could have gotten all the petty things that has been said about me but I told myself and my informer: "Oh stop! I don't want to hear every single detail. Knowing the main thing is more than enough for me."
This thing has really bothered me for days even if I have really been trying to disregard it. I just can't help it, you see. I keep saying to myself that he/she is still part of family no matter what. I just wished that he/she could have been more upfront and told the said complaints/comments in my face; and not spread them to the whole family. I really am so disappointed and so upset, that's why this article. I hope to get this out of my system after this post.
For now, I will really do my best to let the whole thing pass but I just don't know what to do or how to act during family get together. I just hope I can overcome the hurt by then. I also have to keep telling myself that there are far more important things to attend to or to take care of than this petty matter. I believe it is just best to pray for more guidance and strength; and pray for his/her well being.
What about you, guys? If you are in the same situation as me, what would you do? Anyways, I wish you all a lovely day. Have a good one!
This thing has really bothered me for days even if I have really been trying to disregard it. I just can't help it, you see. I keep saying to myself that he/she is still part of family no matter what. I just wished that he/she could have been more upfront and told the said complaints/comments in my face; and not spread them to the whole family. I really am so disappointed and so upset, that's why this article. I hope to get this out of my system after this post.
For now, I will really do my best to let the whole thing pass but I just don't know what to do or how to act during family get together. I just hope I can overcome the hurt by then. I also have to keep telling myself that there are far more important things to attend to or to take care of than this petty matter. I believe it is just best to pray for more guidance and strength; and pray for his/her well being.
What about you, guys? If you are in the same situation as me, what would you do? Anyways, I wish you all a lovely day. Have a good one!



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